March 07, 2010

Could HB 17 be the solution? by Bb. Oria

All of a sudden just when we turned a new leaf and started the year 2010, the Philippines experienced a sudden growth of victims who have Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS). This kind of illness is nothing new here in our country since the Philippines has encountered its first ever case in the year 1984. Having unprotected sex and having multiple partners are one of the causes of this particular condition. Just recently I’ve read and seen news reports about the Department of Health (DOH) have been distributing condoms to the public especially during the love month and the Catholic Church’s wanting to ban commercials of condoms. These particular issues made me want to write about the Reproductive Health Bill.


The proposed House Bill (HB) 17: “Reproductive Health and Population Development Act of 2008” by authored by Representative Filemon “Popoy” Lagman. The proposition of this is bill is to inform parents who have children or planning to have children regarding both natural and modern family planning methods which are medically safe and legally acceptable and have access to it. This allows an environment wherein women and couples are given the freedom of informed choices regarding modes of family planning that they would like to take on, on the basis of their needs, and their personal and religious beliefs. A lot of fuzz surrounds this bill for the reason of the Church’s opposition and they’re unfavorably use of artificial contraceptives. According to the reports I’ve read on the Internet the representative of the 1st district of Albay continually states that “The bill does not have any bias for or against either natural or modern family planning. Both modes are contraceptive methods with a common purpose of preventing pregnancies.”


Though this bill present some drawbacks such as: the favorability of using birth control measures which are opposed by the religious and ethical groups and its directive to sex education which a lot of parents are against it just to name a few. On the positive side the bill offers maternal, infant and child health and nutrition care, promotion of breastfeeding, elimination of violation against women, prevention of abortion and prevention and management of reproductive tract infections, HIV/AIDS and sexually transmitted diseases.


I think that the Reproductive Health Bill would be a big help to our country especially our economy. Why? With the continuous growth of our population that would equate to a huge budget for our country that would be borrowed and in return turned as taxes, taxes even my great grand children would still have to pay. With the lack of classrooms, lack of teachers and proper salaries for them too, and lack of school buildings in the public sector: How would these future children be properly educated? It would be good if every Filipino citizen could pay for private school education but, a huge part of our population could not afford that. I t would be also great if this huge part of our population can afford to have their check-up, treatment in case of ailments and the like in a private hospital but the sad reality is, they cannot. With the high prices of doctor’s fees, hospital fees and a whole lot of fees, a Filipino who belongs to the Class C and D cannot afford to give out a lot of money for that. With the lack of facilities, proper health centers, proper salaries for the doctors and nurses: How would the parents of these children and even themselves as well, be given the proper health care? Our government not giving the proper attention and budget to the agriculture sector and now that our country is experiencing a terrible climate condition and with the continuous rising of prices on commodities and food products: How would these families feed themselves and their children if there would be a continuous growth in our population?


This would not be a problem if the government is giving the proper attention and budget is given to the following sectors and the sectors I forgot to mention. This would not be a problem if the budget allocated for them is received by those people who need it and not straight into the pockets of the corrupt public official. A reproductive health bill would not be necessary if people today would not a stray and follow what must be followed and practice responsible sex but, in today’s society an alarmingly growth of teens do deed outside marriage, the lack of well-educated and responsible people to guide them and the high influences of their friends and the easy accessed media I think it would be hard for today’s society to practice responsible and well-protected intercourse.


I think it would be only right to pass the proposed House Bill 17: “Reproductive Health and Population Development Act of 2008” because it would be for the betterment of our society, economy and most especially our country.

12 journalists laid to rest, their search for justice continues by Bb. Oria

General Santos City is known as the tuna capital of the Philippines and the home of people’s champ Manny Pacquiao but is not known to all that this is also the burial site of the 12 journalists who were killed in the tragic Maguindanao massacre.


Before proceeding to Forest Lake Cemetery were the 12 journalists were buried we first bought flowers, to serve as offerings and as a little something so they will in a way remember us. Picking flowers for them was a little bit hard for me because I want to leave behind a little piece of me, and t the end I chose flowers which bear my favorite color.


Upon our arrival at Forest Lake Cemetery it was so serene, so calm but when I stood and was faced with the 12 tomb stones of the 12 journalists, chills ran down my spine. I was neither terrified nor afraid, but something made me stood still before placing the flowers upon their grave. After placing flowers on each and every grave, I had this heavy feeling in my heart a feeling that these people deserve justice and I know in my heart they will get it. I felt so sad for those people they left behind especially their children, significant other, their parents and friends. I was especially moved when I saw a very young girl who was asked by her relatives to say good-bye and I love you to her mother in her cutest voice, it was so heart-breaking.


As I stood aside and watched my fellow classmates taking photographs of the tomb stone, in my mind I was talking to them. I was telling them how much respect I have for them and from then on I will always say a little prayer for them. It was good that we were able to pay our respects to those journalists who have passed on, dropping by before leaving for Manila gave me as sense that being a journalist is truly a calling for one must be aware that there are a lot of risks and one must be brave and tough enough to face them.

He wrote this for me.

July 12, 2009
12:15am

The first time I met you, I thought, "Wow...she has a really beautiful smile."
The second time we met, I could hardly breathe and was really scared to say something, anything.
When we went out on our first date, our eyes spoke.
On our second date, I realized that I'd do anything for you. Even wait until my heart dies.
When you made me the best dinner that anyone other than my parents made me...you made my mind scatter and my heart fall.
Last night...was the best I've ever had. It was the first time I spent time with a girl and all we did was talk, smile, laugh, hug, and kiss. When we stared at each others' eyes, I could see how much I meant to you, and you saw how happy I was with you.

My Sakura, cherry blossom of my now completed heart...I love you so much. From the darkness that resides in my innermost being, you burned ever so brightly with your pale white light, your sweet petals caressed the cracked surface of my thoughts.
You made me whole again...
You made me live again.

I love you very much Beatrize Blanche Oria.

My entire heart and being..only belongs to you.

When I looked in your eyes, I saw a life I've always wanted to be a part of.

My heart only sings for you, and you alone.

Forever your Syaoran,
Joey

Christmas' 09

To a simple girl who changed my life.

6th monthsary

Life with you so far has been extraordinary. The love you gave me has been enough to last me a thousand lifetimes. I love you.

Words that have touched my heart, my life, my being.

- You don't just make me feel. You made me live. I always thought that lived a colorful life. But since knowing you and spending time with you.. I realized how much my life could be.

- Let's see what happens.. what doesn't together we'll make it happen.

- You are the greatest thing that ever happened to me.

- You always make my heart sing.. a haunting song memory of a song in which only you can ever turn into reality.

- You are the greatest girl.. the best one I've ever spent time with.. I just want my mom to meet that girl.

- My thoughts and dreams are always of you. I love you.

- I'm always my happiest with you, my Sakura.

- How can I be not ok when I have you in my life?

- I honestly don't know.. but I'm willing to do anything.. so I could have a chance of sharing a life with you. I know I'm not perfect.. and we will have our up's and downs. but.. there's no one else I'd rather want to love, cherish, and spend time with no matter what storms come.. but you.

- I love you. =) Every single minute of every fleeting moment of my life is spent thinking about you. Of staring into your beautiful eyes that drowns me in your love.

- You are my heart. My shining star. You are my better half. The heart of my heart. The spirit of my soul. The love of my every being.

- The moon that shines in the darkest night can never even compare to your beauty. Even the desert in my mind fades in the radiance of your beauty, my pale white flower. My soul longs for you, 'till the day I die.

- Empress ko, the dragon emperor bows to no one except to the empress of his heart. The reason for his existence.

- My heart may be manly, but it will always belong to you.

- You are the only person who changed my life.

- You are God's greatest gift to me.

- My life is yours.

- Nothing I have compares to you.

- Thank you for being the light of my life. The heart of my heart. I loved you the first time I saw you. I love you more now and I'll love you forever. There can be no goodbyes, only love. Finally, and forever.

- You deserve only the best.

- I may not be always beside you but my heart and mind would always be.

- You are my happiness.

- And I am the happiest man, that you were able to love me as much as you do. I've waited years for you, and now that I have you all I see is forever.

- My life has never been the same since I met you.

- My heart is screaming out your name. My mind is falling into pieces without you near me.

- You are the only one for me. All the days I spent with you, no words could ever describe what you mean to me, I love you so much. =)

- Your love is the best thing you ever gave to me.

- Every time I see you, I keep falling all over again.

- Don't worry, in time our wishes will come true.

- Love of my life, heart of my heart. My life is empty without you beside me. Any achievements I have pales in comparison to what I feel whenever you are near me. Every part of my body, every crevice of my soul longs to hear your voice, feel your touch, just to be beside you.. Always. I love you Beatrize Blanche, my bb, my Sakura, the empress of my heart. I hope na ok ka lang diyan and I pray that you'd always be safe whevever you are not in my arms, protected and safe. I miss you so much. Always remember that my heart is always with you.

- The dew that comes during the morning saturates everything in its path. Glistening, shimmering. But not even it can compare to the miracle of beauty that is you. I love you Beatrize Blanche of both Oria and Averia, I love you with all that is within me. I love you with all that defines me, and I will always love you until I cease to exist. Morning Sakura, my love. =)

- Every breath that I take is only meant for you.

- I'm so glad that I found you, kala ko hindi na kita mahahanap. =)

- Ingat ka Sakura ha? Pag may nangyari sayo hindi ko alam kung saan ako pupulutin.. mabubuhay pa kaya ako? Eh na sayo puso ko eh.

- How could you ruin my day? When every highlight of my day is my thought of you.

- And that makes me happy. =) I wouldn't want to imagine a life without you.

- You do see yourself in my eyes. As beautiful as the sun. I love you with the intensity of life in perpetual motion. When I look at you my mind goes blank. My heart sings. What you see is me, in love with you with the very essence of who I am.

- My heart will always be yours.

- I'd love you forever.

- That's because you are, and more. You are the sun that blinds me in its morning light, the moon the bathes me in its serene glow, the rain that soaks me with cold, the blanket that covers me with warmth, the mountain that shadows, the sea that grows, the sky that catches me every time I fall. The love that's with me, forevermore.

- I love the way your hair smells. The way you eyes shine when you talk. The way your mouth moves when you smile. The way your arms wrap around me when you missed me. The way you move when you walk. I love you Beatrize Blanche Oria. =)

- Heart of my heart, love of my life. Know that I love you with all that I am, good night my sweet cherry blossoms. May your dreams be as sweet as you beauty, as captivating as your love.

- Hirap magconsentrate especially when I remember how beautiful you are to me.

- My heart is yours.

- You, me, 2 tickets to anywhere in the world. Unlimited spending money, 2 full frame cameras with plethora of lenses, and permits to go go shoot anywhere we like that my dear would make my day. What would make it perfect though, is only you.

- I miss you. The rain reflects how much I do. The sky darkens at the thought of you not being with me. The wind whispers your name. The trees dances and weaves in the music that the wind sings. My heart soars at the thought of seeing you. I miss you Beatrize Oria with every beat of my heart. I miss you witth every minute that passes. I miss you with every thought that passes through my mind. I miss you every second, everyday. I miss you with every drop of rain. I miss you now, and I'll continue to miss you every time you're not here.

- Dates, dates, dates. You were introduced to me by your cousin who is a friend. You smiled and I was smitten. I asked for your number and when you gave it to me I was stunned. We went out and had fun, and then I knew. At last, I've met you. Like as I might to fill this comment box with our memories, but I won't be able to. Because although we haven't been together that long yet, I know that every memory we make is etched in eternity. Yours and mine. For an entire lifetime. A single thought if an infinite moment in time, all come together in a plethora of fleeting memories of smiles and frowns, of up's and downs, of you, of me, of us. I love you. =)

- Stop. If you say you're sorry and hindi na to mauulit then I believe you because I love you.

- I love every thing about you my love. =)

- I want you to be happy.

- I love you more than more.

- You are every breath I take and you're also the one who takes my breath away. The sunlight and rain, sweeps me away. I love you, so much so that no storms can ever keep me away. =)

- Anything made by a beauty, is a beauty.

- I love you. =) Everything I have, everything I know, everything I see cannot compare to you.

- 'Coz you make me love you more and more each day. =)

- Magaling ka talaga. =) Hindi kasi dahil mahal kita, kundi kaya mahal kita. =)

- Eto. Namimiss ka, iniisip ka, minanahal ka, and everything that involves me loving you even more and more each moment that passes. =)

- Wala akong time eh, I'd rather spend it with you.

- How do I love thee? I love thee with the intensity of a thousand suns. I love thee with the seconds of an infinite lifetime. I love thee with every breath. I love thee with every step. I love thee with heary. I love thee with each and every part. Morning love. =)

- As the storm passes, the skies get a little clearer, the sun a little brighter, the wind a little calmer. A beautiful somber scene that only nature can create. Yet none of it compares to you. A smile, a kiss, a hug. A scene that only be described as exquisite, that only you can give.

- A fraction of a second na wala ka, torture.

- Nagssmile naman ako eh, kasi alam kong nanjan ka. Konting lambing mo lang, masaya na ko.

- Para mahalin ka ng buong puso. Para samahan ka sa hirap at ginhawa. Para pagmasdan ang kagandahan at kasexyah mo. Para alagaan ka sa tuwina. Para ipadama sayo na ikaw ang pinakaimportante sa buhay ko.

- Nightmares are our body's way of telling us to wake-up from a dream. But what good can it do when you're already living your dream? Nightmares are lies that our mind makes to blind us from the truth. And the truth is.. I love you so much my bb. =)

- I'm home na din, in your heart.

- You say that I don't write you letters, but how could I? When all the words I know pale in significance to what you really mean to me? How can a single word like love describe the breadth of emotions that I feel? Nothing. No one. Just you. =)

- I'm so lucky I have you. =) I love you. =)

- I'd give everything I have just to bask in your radiance even for just a moment =)

- Blank kasi ang blank ng buhay ko pag wala ka. =)

- You always never fail to make me smile.

- My life wouldn't be the same without you. =)

- I love everthing about you. =) You brought out the best in me and I'm thankful that I found you. Ever since I met you, you brought life in my otherwise lifeless heart. I love you. =)

- My life would be in color without you. Thank you for making my life black and white. =)

- I just wanted you to know that I am so proud of you. From the moment I first met you, I knew you were brilliant. Since then that brilliance blinded me with such intensity that I fell in love with you every moment of each passing day. A thousand times more brilliant than the brightest star, incomparable to anything I can think of. That same brilliance will shine with you today, and though I may not be there to watch it, my heart (which has been with you from the moment you stole it from me, of course after you fell for me the very first second you saw me =p), sees what my eyes don't. I'm so proud of you my love, my pale white cherry blossom empress, love of my life, heart of my heart. I love you so much. =)

- Love ko talaga. =) Ginagawa ko lahat yun kasi love kita. =)

- Masaya din ako kasama ka. =) Kahit na corny panoorin natin, kahit boring pupuntahan natin basta kasama kita, masaya na. =) I love you too. =)

- Morning my Sakura, my pale white flower, love of my life, heart of my heart. As I watch the sun's rays fall on the window of this cold dreary room, I realize that I would be as cold and dreary as this room without your smile bathing me in its warm glowing light. I miss you. =) I love you. =) Good morning. =)

- I'll never be too busy for you. =)

- I miss the way you smile, when you look at me with those beautiful eyes. I miss the way you laugh... the way you tickle my belly. I miss the way we talk... the way we smile because of the past, the way we dream of tomorrow.

- I love you. =) I envy for the clouds have you in their embrace and I don't. But surely they envy me because your smile always embraces me in ethereal arms... something that they don't. =)

- I love you. No word can ever say how much I do. =)

- Are the trees really green and the skies really blue? What is reality when my fantasies came true...? What is fantasy when my reality is you? =)

- It all started with a glance... an introduction that changed my life with a single smile. An unseeming date that not only stole my breath but also filled my heart with longing... and there it was, yet again, another smile. One smile to melt my heart, and another to make it shine. I love you Beatrize Blanche Oria... more so when you became mine. Belated happy anniversary my sakura.. =) thank you for making me happy.

- Every day I'm faced with disappointments and regrets..of things I did not do or say. But all I know is that these three words always get me through: I. Love. You.


- Joey.